Warning: This is going to be one of those long, personal and reflective posts. I’m (newly) 28 years old, and I’ve never been in love nor have I been in a real relationship. The closest I came to a relationship was right out of college. It was with a guy I was hooking up with …
5 Ways The Job Hunt Is Like Dating
Although I have been at my current job for nearly a year, I have been on the constant job hunt since leaving my previous job last September. Between filling out applications, reworking my resume, interviewing and the simple frustration that comes from both being rejected and not even hearing back from potential employers, I just do …
Season Of Singleness
The most annoying part about being single is not even the simple fact that I am single. No, it is how others react to my being single. As if there is something inherently wrong with the current stage of the life cycle I am in, since it is not in line with theirs. These annoying, …
The History of Us
For me, it all started freshman year of high school. The school year had just started. We met at church, through youth group. I do recall a few memories before then, but it was high school when I really noticed you. And by noticed you, I mean I realized how attractive you were. A typical …
500 Days of Summer Revisited
It is crazy how by re watching a movie you have seen before, you are able to take away brand new information later in life. Usually if it is a movie I have not seen in a long time, I will recognize actors that I have seen since in different movies or TV shows that …
I Don’t Believe in Soulmates
I don't believe in soulmates. Every time I see an article with the word "soulmates" in the title or description, I cringe. I don't buy into that love at first sight bit. I don't think we're destined or fated to be with our "one true love", and if you don't find him or her? Oh …
Thinking About You
I listened to Thinking About You by Ariana Grande the other day, for the first time in a while. That song used to hit home for me, because it reminded me of a very significant person in my life. This used to be the realest, most relevant song to me. But when I listened to …
Lessons Learned
Truth be told, I have not had much experience in the romantic area. I probably should not say that if I'm dedicating a post to lessons I've learned from romantic relationships. Perhaps I should rephrase that sentence, or elaborate by saying that I have not had much romantic experience in the sense of full functioning …